[ A breath, slow. ]

If I'm one of the ones who can and who's okay with it, then I don't mind doing whatever I can to help. I may not know everyone's wish and I know a lot of people aren't here to find romance, but...

[ She shakes her head. ]

I want us all to be able to get there, Lessing. Though maybe that's just also me being nosy and not leaving people alone when they want to be.

[ That part's a little more rueful. She's aware. ]